Rules, Cheating, & Boundaries

Rules, Cheating, & Boundaries

Since the onset of my midlife crisis (assuming I’m only going to live until 78), I’ve been exploring the edges: of my comfort, of the choices I make, of how socially acceptable practices work for me. At one point, having been accused of having no...
Provenance

Provenance

Most of my furniture is made either by Ikea or by Darley A. Holbrook. Darley died in 1964, which means that the pieces he made are all verified antiques. I don’t know when he started making furniture, or when he stopped. One thing I do know is that it was a...

Break Down, Resistance

What if I don’t feel like writing today? What if my temper flares up because I had set specific time in my schedule to watch an educational video that I’m dying to get the information from, and then somehow it cut out in the middle and I can’t figure...
Grades Are Stupid. How I Dealt With Them.

Grades Are Stupid. How I Dealt With Them.

Though I always “had power” over the final grades I reported to students, I reminded students that they “had power” over what they turned in. My classroom was a place where completion was far more important than perfection, as I’m...
Why Are There Bad Bosses?

Why Are There Bad Bosses?

My husband, S., has a great boss. Not only does she appreciate everything he does, she seeks to build a team of people around her who are doing their best work and are all appreciated for it. She is funny and real (even more so at the social gatherings where...