Warning: This One’s About Death

People who are younger than me have started dying. Of course, that’s a lie, a lie I tell myself alternately as a comfort and as a spur to action. They’ve always been dying, but now that I’m in my mid-century, people in their 40s seem like...

“Houston Left”

My Aunt Adaire told me a joke a long time ago about a group of people driving to Houston. As they went along they saw road signs: “Houston 200 miles,” “Houston 126 miles,” “Houston 50 miles.” When they saw a sign that said...

Some Alternatives to “Perfect”

Persuasive, not perfect. Meaningful, not perfect. Complete, not perfect. Understood, not perfect. Comprehensible, not perfect. Weird, not perfect. Significant, not perfect. Purposeful, not perfect. Creative, not perfect. Near, not perfect. Lovely, not perfect. Edible,...

What Do Great Blue Herons Think of Themselves?

Lesson is the noun; learn is the verb. All the lessons are present, we just need to figure out what to do with them. Lesson One: The Great Blue Heron My neighborhood has crows, gulls, and pigeons aplenty, along with flickers, starlings, sparrows, robins, woodpeckers,...

How I Got Myself Unstuck Today

What did I come here to learn and what did I come here to teach? They are the same thing. I always learn and teach at the same time. Today I’m teaching and learning how to use writing to get myself unstuck and back on track. Or is that too many things? One thing...