Turning 50 in Public

Turning 50 in Public

On my 50th birthday, I took my clothes off in public. More than once. In more than one location. For over a year I’d been planning to celebrate my birthday with a burlesque performance. I started talking about it before turning 49, and I started talking about it...

It’s Party Time!

When I turned 14, I had a party in my backyard. I got a volleyball as a present, so my brother acted as the volleyball net. When I turned 16, I kept thinking I was going to get a surprise party, since no one in my family mentioned my birthday. No, it was simply...
The Unseen Angels of My Body

The Unseen Angels of My Body

Sometimes I see a photograph of myself and I’m surprised at how I look. “I didn’t know that about myself,” I say. Quietly. Sadly. Sometimes angrily. Once I saw a photo taken from behind in which I had an almost square back and upper arms like...